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If they were so horrendous, why did you stay 4 years?

Perhaps his approach would work on a platform dedicated to other Neurodivergent people as theres a higher chance for him to meet someone (like yourself) who vibes with his intense and debate-like approach right off the bat and who isn't catching any of the undertones. But, this is strictly advice for guys using the average dating platform who are interacting with a pool of women who are unlikely to respond positively (give him her number and schedule a date) to his approach. Most women on the average dating platform are not going to enjoy a man coming across as argumentative when the general, initial focus is to simply break the ice and get to know the other person. NTs and some NDs (which is what most average dating apps are made up of) are not focused on 'concepts' and debates put across in a harsh manner and in the first few minutes of meeting someone. However, conceptually, it was a simple matter of the guy believing that ADHD is a medical condition and myself believing it's just a difference in brain wiring. Not many people want to debate or argue with a stranger on that topic and, although that's not the main focus point of this video, feel free to watch it again and pause it on the parts I added text - if you missed that. Thank you for watching!

If this were a debate session, it would be a simple matter of one person believing that ADHD is a medical condition and one person believing it's just a difference in brain wiring. But, it's not a debate session. It's online dating and most women do not respond well to being spoken to with the approach he took. The simple goal is to get the number so you can go on a date, interact in the real world and take things from there. His approach is not conducive to that. There was nothing for me to personally 'move on' from because this is all for educational purposes only. Thanks for watching!

@IndigoChina there is no need to attract 'most women', just the ones that match with him energetically. I meant move on, as in don't drag this man just because he doesn't suit your personal tastes that you think is representative of 'the whole'. Your reply is frustrating because it shows me you don't think you did anything wrong when a few of us already explained why it's problematic. EDIT: If he was rude, it would be a different story, but he wasnt, he was most likely just espousing on a hyperfixation. As a neurodivergent, you should know what it's like to constantly mask just to fit in to what's 'normal'. You shouldn't have to mask with your s.o./s, which is essentially what you're looking for on dating apps. Actually, his method is the fastest way to find someone suitable for himself 😂

@Fs_N079 There are men (including Neurodivergent men) who genuinely want to attract women from the pool of women on the average dating app and who find this advice useful. This video is for them to show them what not to do in their approach. There is no dragging going on nor an inherent 'right' or 'wrong'. There's how you approach things to get the desired outcome on the average dating platform and how you don't approach things (unless you don't want the desired outcome). This is not a video focused on a significant other. But, a video specifically focused on the online approach only (which is easy to continually practice on) not the in-person or specific-person approach which is different and less nuanced. Thanks for coming back to the video and sharing your opinion though.

@@davidlocke5016 If something doesn't make sense, ask a question to understand more. If you don't like the content, don't watch it. I'm not going to debate with you on whether or not this video was pre-set to be used for educational content or not. Thank you for watching!

​@@IndigoChina We can't like or dislike the content before we've watched it, really, can we? Unless we find a review of it somewhere that we can use to get an opinion of it.

@@gregoryfriston7091 Absolutely. But people can stop coming back to a video they've already watched and didn't like :)

For your information: Consent for use of messages is agreed prior. This was not a potential partner and the entire interaction is for educational purposes only. As a fellow Neurodivergent with a largely Neurodivergent following, there is no 'public shaming' of anyone for also being Neurodivergent.

That's a jump to conclusions

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Thanks! Glad you appreciated the review.

She almost sounds like she's inhaled helium gas.

I'll make a video

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@@IndigoChina Thank you beautiful x

Yes, it's great isn't it! Thank you for watching 🫶🏾

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You're so welcome. Thanks for watching!

Aw, thank you so much for watching and for the comment. I appreciate it!

Perhaps they ran out of the good stuff, haha. How are you getting on with Wype?

Thanks! I amended that.

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At the time of ordering Rootana (in 2022) I selected 'add metal shaker' to my order and it was only the Blender Bottle they had available and sent out. However I can see that they've now changed the option to the Smart Shaker Bottle which is half the price. I haven't used that one before so can't personally comment on it. But, instead of a blender ball, the Smart Shaker uses a mixer net to combine the shake smoothly. It seems like it'd do the same job. But might just be a matter of preference. For me personally, I now use a mini blender for all my shakes and smoothies. Costs less than a Blender Bottle and slightly more than a Shaker Bottle but worth it for the convenience!

More information on the Smart Shaker Bottle here if you're interested: www.healthpharm.co.uk/products/smartshake-reforce-steel-shaker-900ml-grey?variant=40381246341229&gclid=CjwKCAiA5Y6eBhAbEiwA_2ZWIcB3mSmgo5fzNmajT0unW2BFtzyWVM3w-bo9MD2EMQ0wm3iVam31NRoCAdYQAvD_BwE

@@IndigoChina Many thanks for the reply. Are you still taking it? I've got some Huel and once I'm finished with it, I'll probably switch over to Rootana.

@@nksr74 I'm still using it and have almost finished the bag. I would have finished it by now, but I interchange between Jimmy Joy Plenny drinks and Rootana. Huel is probably the only meal replacement powder that I haven't tried and probably won't try (I tried their ready drinks though) what are your thoughts on Huel? do you like it?

@@IndigoChina I'm drinking the ready drinks, which are quite expensive. The after taste from the sweetener isn't great but still drinkable. I've heard Rootana is much better. I've not heard of Jimmy Joy before. Which is your favourite so far? Thanks.

Let me know what you think!

Oh, I hope you enjoy! Perhaps there's a meal replacement company that doesn't charge high shipping costs to your country? worth looking into, if you haven't already :)

@@IndigoChina I hope to find one 🙌🏻

When I lived here, it was off-putting for sure. Especially as someone who's used to living in houses/with no one above me.

It wasn't expensive. £24.00 per month on average.

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It's the responsibility of the council or housing association to do any renovations as they own the property.